marriage

How long do you think a person should be with another person before they got married and what age should they be? Also, should marriage be based on how good the sex is or by love?

I think time doesn't really matter. Just as long as the love is mutual and to the same degree. Age doesn't matter just as long as they aren't in elementary school or something, Marriage should be based on a little bit of sex and love. It is more important to love each other, but sex is what keeps the marriage together. If the sex isn't good, then the people will go looking else where for it.

What if one of them were a virgin before they were married and they just wanted to wait?

Then they're going to have to make the other really want it!

But in all seriousness, I'm sure if they are really in love then it'll work out. Just as long as sex will come eventually

Ladies, please take note of the humorous image below:




For your sakes, make sure THIS doesn't happen to you. Don't give lip, get a clip. Don't entice 'im, ice 'im. Be safe.

What the hell does it mean?

It means don't take no shit. I, personally, as you know, love it when girls smart off! So freakin' kinky! MEYOW!

Statisics show that you shouldn't marry until you are in your mid 20s. Also it depends on the couple, if they feel like they are ready for the next step.

It took me and my boyfriend 4 years to final decide to get engaged.

But like I mentioned before it just really depends on the persons and when they feel ready to live together for a long time.

Well Seeing as I have been asked for my 2cents here it is.

For me I believe that it should be at least 6 months of dateing/going out before you take the next step and get engaged. At that stage, it should be 100% total commitment to your partner. The engagement stage should last for at least 3 years before the marriage step is taken, with at least half of that time actually spent living together as a married couple. (if you cant hack it then, then it saves the hassels of marriage).

Once all of that is completed then and only then should you look at marriage. Now as for the sexual part. I think the ration should be 95% love and 5% physical attraction/sex. Sex is nice and all but should not be the most important part of any relationship. (oh and there should definately be no kids out of wedlock).

Oh and before anyone asks what or how old I am... look in me profile. Oh and yes I am single, not activley searching for a partner (though if the right person came along I wouldn't say no) and am not gay. I merely have different beliefs to most people of my age/gender.

I do agree with Tequilla on this one.

*Raises hand slowly* Hi...

*Raises hand slowly* Hi...

Wow finally someone with more grundies than most of the world. Kudo's to you.

(Seriously meant, Hope you can hold out and make it till the end )

Thanks, I'm doing my best! ...trust me, it gets difficult at times.

Look at it this way, at least you will still retain a very special gift to give to your husband on your wedding night. (am assumeing {probably incorrectly} that you are female, as I dont think there are any guys that still feel that way, or strong enough to actually hold out).

Hey, I resent that remark

Anyway, I think I'm going to go 100% in agreement with Tequilla's earlier post. I never thought it out into numbers and such, but I agree with it.